AS you know, guys are not hard wired in our minds to really put our heart and mind into sitting down and plan for this special day. We are GUYS for crying out loud, if given the chance we would slack our butt off and put everything off till the last minute. Which ever guy in their logical minds would put down everything that they are doing, stop and think about that valentine’s day.
Just the other day i was watching the sitcom “two and a half men” and they had a this girl over for dinner after dinner was done, none of them wanted to do the dishes and left the poor girl to wash up. Well so much for a date ! We are guys for crying out loud, whenever you tell us your problems we take it that you want us to solve your problems. Because that is what we do best ! We would of course feel more accomplished if the problem is solved because of us.
BUT girls girls girls !! i still believe that there are some sensitive and caring guys out there, the dream of every girl. The perfect gentleman, even a mistake from him seems like it is a work of art. His jokes no matter how lame it is always get to make you laugh, his little wink would always make you go GA GA all over and boy don’t let me start with his personality and his sensuality, the sense of security that is in place and the things that he is willing to do for you OH BOY…its making me sweat just thinking about it. Is it hot in here or is it just me???
What i believe that although the world is filled with girls and guys, one day you would come across someone who would treat you just the way you want to be treated and by all means GRAB that chance and never let go. A rejection in one place would just mean an acceptance in another. What is the worst that could happen ? a reply : “NO JERK OFF…*smack*” well that would happen if you are half drunk while taking piss on the floor.
I have been in and out of various relationships, and boy when i say that there are sharks out there you better believe it. I did come a long way of trial and error, to really be competent in a relationship i believe the key is communication. Every single word to be told nothing to hide, if asked who was that or where are you going, THIS is not controlling it is just questions of concern !! i would not be who i am today if not for my past.
But the question still remains what love really is? my the other half says its me. Well i am flattered, but that is not answering the question. She just says that because the question is too vague and that there are too many answers to this one simple question. Because love is so difficult to describe BUT finally i stumbled upon the answer, and guess what its from the bible.
LOVE is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1corinthians 13:4
Where else does it better explain what love really means?
After reading that short excerpt, i realized that i was guilty of a few things. I am not saying that i do not trust my the other half or protecting or being patient or kind. But i am guilty of not showing it to my family. i am still human by the way just in case you few blundering idiots failed to notice. I have my temper too, and i am really really trying my best to calm down and think and not being to insensitive.
Of course i lost my temper at my other half a couple of times, and of course let the misunderstandings get worst because i did not want to open my BIG mouth to say whatever caused me to go Bananas. I am still learning and i am really glad and appreciative that she is still hanging on to me. she really deserve a round of applause, *Clap, Clap*.
SO i would really reward her on valentine’s day. To a relaxing day at at the SPA also to remember this special day i have organized our photos to be taken professionally. Ending the day off with dinner ! viola~ This is to thank her for sticking in with me through the thick and thin. cheers you deserve it.
